Deception
November 2004
When is deception good? And when is it bad? In sports and war we expect
deception--at least within certain bounds. In these arenas, we applaud deceptive
acts that succeed. In private life we also engage in considerable
deception--most of which is probably not so good. Consider infidelity. The
deception that takes place when a spouse cheats on the other is endless until
that moment when it all comes crashing down.
Perhaps the most interesting story about deception reported in a long time is a
fellow, an engineer, who would search the Internet for hotels near where he was
traveling for business. Once he found one to his liking, he would search for a
prominent business nearby. Here's the hook--once he identified a nearby business
he called the hotel and asked if they had a special rate for that company.
Allah! He invariably got the discounted rate. The hotel clerk rarely asked him
to provide evidence that he was a legitimate employee of the nearby business.
Did our engineer friend think he was doing something illegal? No. Did he think
he was doing something unethical? Probably not. Rather, he was simply being
clever and entrepreneurial. After all, he mused, hotels gouge businessmen every
day by charging high rates.
Deception is a tricky business. Do you imagine that one who engages in deception
like that reported here is a pretty honest person nonetheless? Or, is this
behavior likely to be indicative of how our engineer friend goes about the rest
of his professional and personal life?
Hurry, hurry -- get the deceiver rate, if you can live with yourself.
Source: New York Times, August 10, 2004:C7